The Fat Gurl Chronicles

When you think of your life as a woman on the thicker side, a lot of things probably comes to mind as to what will constitute your greatest enemy. Rude comments, name calling, insults from men that can’t believe that you would refuse them because your size should have equaled enough desperation as they believe that zero men are beating down your door just to be with you and all other things that flow with the river of being plus sized ,but I can say that leading amongst the worst and greatest enemy any plus sized lady has to deal with must be the unsolicited advice.

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No one is a stranger to the helpful advice

You hear statements like, haba are you not working out ? Stop eating too much, you like junk foods o, how will you find man to marry you, you think men like fat women, you better lose weight o, see your stomach and your legs na, can’t you see the way so and so is slim, why can’t you be like them and on and on like that. We get so many unsolicited advice on how we should live our lives, what we should wear, what we should eat, if they could I am sure they would advice us on how to breath.
I’ll talk more about this on the next blog post so please engage and tell me more about your stories as I share mine with you.